The epithet "anti-social" has been flung at me from time to time because I am, admittedly, an introvert who needs time alone to delve the universe before I can interact with this tiny corner of it. But I deny that the epithet fits me in any way, shape, or form.
I say "please" and "thank you." I treat people with respect, unless they attack me or otherwise show themselves unworthy of it. I mind my own business and don't pry into other people's affairs or spread gossip. If I make a promise, I keep it no matter the discomfort or displeasure it causes. If someone bests me or generally excels, I offer congratulations; I don't seethe with envy or try to cut the person down to size. I don't curse in mixed company or in front of children. I don't resent people whose lives are more prosperous or enjoyable than mine, nor do I demand that they pay for my mistakes or take on my problems. I say what I mean, and I do what I say. I tip waitstaff well. I'm a considerate driver: I don't linger in the passing lane; I don't tailgate; I use my turn signal; and I use my horn only to warn, not to scorn. If I go to church, I dress in an appropriate and respectful manner. I have never stood up a date. I have never hit a woman and never will. And I don't jettison friends simply because I disagree with their politics.
Society is coming apart at the seams, but it is not because of people like me.
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